Let’s Get Moving!

make-things-happen-imageLet’s Get Moving!!!! Now I know some of us may really be in tune with these words while the rest of us just are sitting and waiting until something major happens that gives us no other option but to MOVE!!! Like waiting to be inspired by seeing friends or people whom you’ve never met get married, have a baby, graduate college, launch a biz and sad of all death. I have noticed that people go crazy pressing the like button for all that I have just mentioned but fail to press the “I WANT TO WIN” button, which currently does not exist by the way!(smile!)win-win

I just recently completed a 7 day challenge via facebook called “Shift Your Life” and many participated but only a few publicly let everyone know they were involved by their liking and sharing. I was challenged by 1 of my colleagues to see if Facebook was a platform that could be used to get people to TAKE ACTION and I realized something. I realized that some people caught on to the challenge right away and others caught on around the 3rd or 4th day and a little more near the end. This says to me that some people just need a lot more mindset motivation. They have all these goals but their readiness to achieve them is like finding a lizard in a field of tall grass. Their readiness cannot be easily found because they fear something. They may fear the unknown outcome of a shift in their life, success, failure etc… but it is definitely fear or simply procrastination and laziness. Notice I did not give any other reasons? Well if I gave a thousand reasons you surely could find one to attach yourself to and be content to say “THIS IS MY REASON AND I AM STICKING TO IT” but the only thing that you will achieve is a NEW EXCUSE NOT TO TAKE ACTION!!! It may sound harsh but I am a Mental Fitness Coach and I only want to see you come out winning like those football and basketball coaches want to see their guys win the championships!! You know how they start foaming at the mouth and jumping up and down on the sidelines while motivating their players! They are loud and TO THE POINT!!! You don’t have to listen because it’s a CHOICE AND THE CHOICE IS YOURS!!!

If you want a real shift you and no one else can give you room for EXCUSES!!! If you are waiting for everything to be perfect before you start, TRUST ME, you will almost NEVER GET STARTED!!! Sometimes it is in our storms where we find out what we are truly made of!!! You have to OWN YOUR GOALS AND THEY MUST ATTRACT YOU!!! If you are not ready to eat then don’t fish! Hey I am roughing it too! It is not easy AT ALL and if someone told you that THEY ARE TRULY LIYING!!!

We have to dress our minds for success otherwise our bodies won’t be attracted to it and ACTION JUST WON’T HAPPEN!!!
So Let’s Get Moving!!!! We have work to do! Out of maybe 7 participants to the “Shift Your Life” challenge ,2 have chosen to MOVE FORWARD and hire me as their coach to help them get MOVING! The challenge was only to awaken your subconscious and make you itch a little for success but choosing to go further will cause you to JUMP OUT OF YOUR SKIN TO WIN!!!

P.S. God Willing! See you on the other side of change because I no longer live in contemplation!Its not about Balance but it’s about a Harmonious Journey towards success!
nothing-changes

Your Mental Fitness Coach,
Ukhtee Walida-Herspiring Bizness-“It’s Time”

HB’S Sunday Statistics: SHE IS A GO- GETTER!

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Do you know how it feels to want to achieve a goal but have to make a choice about what path to take? Most often as adults our decisions are impacted by how much money we have rather than how much knowledge or skills we possess. We also feel like there is only one sure way to get to the top because from children we were shown this approach by our lovely parents. What if there was a way to break free from the ingrained thought that the only way to become financially free is if you go to school, get a job in the corporate America arena, and WAIT month after month and year after year for those lovey PROMOTIONS? So we were told that you must crawl before you walk and success happens in stages. Well both statements are true but at the same time it denotes having a tremendous amount of tolerance for whatever comes your way while keeping your eye on the prize. Some of us make it to the top but some of us have been realizing that with all the education we have gained through Universities and all f the knowledge and skill sets we have gained from employment in the corporate arena WE MIGHT AS WELL GIVE OURSELVES A CHANCE AT STARTING OUR OWN VENTURE!!!

I am writing this post remembering my days as a corporate girl. I was granted the opportunity to enter Corporate America at the age of 19. I was blessed, All Praise is due to Allah, to be promoted 3 times within my 2 year term there. I was eager to learn and implement everything I learned! Several people realized this about me and would put in a word for me to the top executives who would then offer me a promotion. Some of these positions that I attained had some requirements that I had not met yet but I was given the opportunity to “earn and learn” as they say. I pushed through many obstacles and craved success. My point is that  I wanted more and what was presented was not enough. The last position I was promoted to allowed me to really use the skills I had previously learned in other positions and my educational knowledge. I was ecstatic! All expense paid trips to other states to be a part of the company’s vision, lodging at the finest hotels, eating expensive seafood dishes, getting paid company bonuses,  taking my son on all expense paid trips to major theme parks and more! Though I had all of this it truly did not give me the freedom that I craved for. I craved for TIME! Yes!  was seeing my son less and less because of the demands at work and I was a full-time student at University.

There are many other women who are in this time and money ENTRAPMENT and they just want to have freedom. It can be achieved but what I found was that it is best achieved when you are the BOSS! Try to look at it this way; if you only have yourself to report to everyday then who will threaten to  fire you when your child is sick and you need a few days to care for them, when you just want to take a vacation,take a few days to visit family, or just spend quality time with your spouse and children? You don’t have to give notice to anyone when you are self-employed.

Though entrepreneurship offers flexibility and freedom of time and money it can be burdensome because we sometimes get lazy but then we must have a system. I won’t go into that because that is reserved for another article but the point I am making here is that you will have to discipline yourself to GET THE JOB DONE!!! Many women have proved to be multi-taskers but this can sometimes leave us burnt out! We have to put systems in place that will allow us to leverage our time and finances.  Women have been are still doing it more and more these days. Some women hire a coach to help them organize their lives and put systems in place that work best for them! I hired a coach when I started my venture as a Life/Business coach for women and found it to be absolutely necessary! Now, I know that your probably thinking… “why would a coach hire a coach”? Right? Well I will tell you plain and simple….EVEN A COACH NEEDS A COACH! They need someone who is going to keep them on task and make sure they abide by the code of conduct for coaches. It maintains the value of wholeness and integrity of the industry. We all need a system of checks and balances! Success does not happen ALONE!!!

Since this is Sunday and I would normally give statistics, I will leave you with a statistic about minority women(African-American, Native American, Asian, and other women from the Pacific Islands)  “BUSTING OUT OF THE GATES” with non-traditional pathways to success in the form of Entrepreneurship. You read the title of this article! “Who Are Today’s Go-Getters?

The U.S. Department of Commerce’s Minority Business Development Agency reported that minority women entrepreneurs are starting their own business ventures twice as fast as minority male entrepreneurs- and more than four times the rate of non-minority men and women.

WAY TO GO LADIES!!!

HB’s Statistic Sundays: WBO’s Are Filling Up The Small Business/Entrepreneur Arena!

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The 2013 State of Women-Owned Businesses Survey revealed the following about  why women decided to start their own businesses

1. They had a vision for a business idea or a passion for solving a specific industry problem

2. They wanted control or a more flexible work-life balance

3. They felt like they were in the right place at the right time.

When women were asked what the biggest motivation for starting their business, the most common answer was

1. 28% indicated that they were following their vision

2. 21% indicated that their vision was followed by finding an idea that allowed them to become an entrepreneur

The survey also found that the most important traits for running a successful business are

1.Having a passion for an idea

2. Having a vision to succeed long-term after the business is launched

3. Having the  willingness and attitude to fail before you succeed and to take risks

I hope these statistics were helpful to you all! Maybe this will boost your confidence about starting your own business in the next year or so. Sometimes we are more frightened by what we don’t know rather than what we think we know!

Great Day Beloveds,

Ukhtee Walida

Leaving The J.O.B. To Build Their Own Biz Dreams

(Photo:  ICNA MAS Convention 2014 Baltimore, Maryland-There were many women-owned businesses in the vending area!)

Women have been leaving their J.O.B.’s(Just Over Broke) to start their own businesses faster and faster over the last 10 or so years. We want to spend more time with our families! We are simply tired of having to wake up before the birds chirp and rush to the “plantation fields” where the employers tell us when to eat, take a break and go on vacation. Making ends meet is no longer our cry! We are talking about spending more time with family/spouses, getting closer to God, having time to spend with our friends, earning money on our own terms, finding our passion or life purpose, doing more to help others in society to make the world a better place, and building a better village to raise our children.

If you are a woman and any of this resonates with you , you may want to stop and think for just a few minutes about your current circumstances. Are you working a 9 to 5 with hopes that just one day you will never have to work for any one else because you hate it so much but are only in it to pay bills? ….. I thought so! I too lived that kind of life and it was a tough decision to make starting my own business for fear of losing SECURITY!!! I was wondering how I would even pay a bill if I did not have a paycheck in hand every Friday or every other Friday! This thought process was truly giving me a headache. I just knew I did not like someone having so much control over me to the point where I would compromise all my beliefs and values just to get a DOLLAR!!

“Verily Allah provides sustenance to whom He wills without measure.”-  Surah al-Imran: 37

The way I saw it was that if God is our provider and He says that He gives provision to whom He wills without measure then my provision does not depend on whether I continue to stay at a job that stresses me out daily or quit! What I do realize is that everyone on the face of the Earth was born with a purpose and a gift(s) and we are given so much yet we take it for granted. God has already set your provision so really there isn’t anything to lose ,rather, you have to find out what you can do with the gifts God has given you to make an honest living. Just like the owner or president of the company that you work for had a vision to provide the best product/service to people in their own unique way and has built a team of top level executives to carry out their mission  …SO CAN YOU!!!  Yes it takes money to make money but you have got to start building towards your vision everyday that you live even if its just 5 minutes a day!

If you want to really start your own business and get out of the 9 to 5 rat race , READ ON!!! Start using your current situation as an opportunity to gain free education while getting paid for it!!! Take what you need, leave the rest and get paid is the new “earn while you learn” technique, because if you do it right nobody even knows what you are doing but you! Don’t waste time complaining but start studying the company’s structure. Learn how your position contributes to it instead of just clocking in and dreading the day ahead of you waiting till time to clock out. You need what they have because just about every business needs close to the same thing. Most often its called Core Values, Mission, and Vision. Focus on one core value and start measuring their level of deliverance in products/services regards to how they are meeting or not meeting it. Take notice to how they use their mission to drive their vision.

You don’t have time to worry about all the reasons you hate your job because complaining will leave you sitting in the same position year after year, whether it is at that job or at someplace else. If you truly want to have a business of your own you have got to learn the art of leveraging and learning on an ongoing basis. Build your relationships with people who have the same mindset and get out of the company of people who just don’t want to change their circumstance but rather complain everyday and accept it!

If you want to begin moving in the direction of earning money own your own terms and living your life in more happier and peaceful way spending more time with family and doing the things you love most then you have got to remove the one obstacle that stands in the way! That’s YOU!!!! You have got to want it bad enough and have to be willing to do whatever it takes because you only have something to GAIN. If you took a leap from whatever your circumstance is now, the difference would not be a loss if nothing changed because you never lost anything! You will probably just go back to whatever you were doing or be in the same circumstance you were in or edging, and that would be the same thing! Why not stick with the bumps in the road, getting stronger and more focused with each one, allowing change to give you an upgrade in exchange for your time and commitment!

Have you already started a business and are just searching for ways to stay inspired, motivated, and on top as you move forward?

Are you just stuck trying to decide if starting a business is the right thing to do right now?

Are you looking for an opportunity that would allow you to earn money on your own terms ?

Did you answer yes to any of these questions?

Great! I want to personally invite you to a VIP conference, with my business partners and I ,COMING SOON IN THE FALL OF 2014! You will have the opportunity to discuss some of your concerns and challenges regarding entrepreneurship and learn about ways to make a change to your current financial circumstance. This is a part of my campaign to reach 1000 women across America who are READY TO MAKE A CH$NGE!!! Stay tuned for details!